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The starting point to feeling safe
Lydia Walker Lydia Walker

The starting point to feeling safe

When we don’t feel safe, a normal reaction is for us to avoid the ‘thing’, be that an event, activity or person, to protect ourselves.

We construct barriers and walls to keep out the threat. If avoiding and distancing doesn’t work then we retreat further building higher walls between us and the external source of the threat. For some, the walls become so high, and you retreat so much that your previously constructed walls to keep you safe become your prison.

Yes, you keep out the unwanted thing, but inevitably you also block out the positive opportunities for connection, joy, fun, growth and love.

In order to start to move forward with courage, we need to have some element of feeling safe.

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What is your signature stress response?
Lydia Walker Lydia Walker

What is your signature stress response?

Noticing where you are on the scale of stress and overwhelm is part of building your resilience in times of stress. If you catch the warning signs early, you give yourself the chance to act and use strategies to reduce your stress before you become burnt out.

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What can you do to reduce anxiety in the current climate ?
Lydia Walker Lydia Walker

What can you do to reduce anxiety in the current climate ?

The current climate we find ourselves in highlights the advent of change. In a previous blog I spoke more about our need for certainty as a species. It helps us feel safe when we can predict what is coming. Therefore change can leave us feeling like our foundations are being rocked and the rug pulled from under our feet.

As my passion as a coach is to empower others, I wanted to focus this blog on this question:

What can we do to reduce our anxiety during change ?

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The gatekeeper to change
Lydia Walker Lydia Walker

The gatekeeper to change

IN CREATING A NEW HABIT WE NEED TO FIRSTLY ENGAGE WITH OUR GATEKEEPER TO CHANGE. Our subconscious mind.
Find out how in this blog.

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The content on this page is for informational purposes only. It is intended for a general audience and is not specifically tailored for any individual. The information provided should not be construed as a replacement for medical or psychological advice. Should you wish to discuss your personal circumstances please contact me.